I was just joking on that "womens oughta be in the kitchen barefoot 'n pregnit" thing. My wife just likes to cook, and is good at it, so, prior to now, we split the work--she cooked and I cleaned up. I was also kind of intimidated by her skill so I hesitated in attempting to share in the cooking duties. But I've decided to try.
WRT the tempeh--we just like it. I'll let you know how it was.